it's not easy to satisfied everyone

my schedule for last 3 weeks was full with all wedding invitation.

mimmie's wedding, cousin wedding and relative wedding..

this noon i had little argument with my sister.

we talk bout guest list for wedding..for my future wedding =D

dah dapat bunga pengantin haruslah lepas ni aku kawen.hahaha

so, i said the guest should be around 500 peoples only..100 for my friend (kunun aku ada kawan ramai samp 100 la.. :( ) and another 400 peoples is up to my parents who they want to invite.

my sis said it's impossible..it's not enough. my mom for sure will invite all her relative..ALL her relatives. even if they don't know my existence :(

then i ask my sis..what for i want to invite someone who don't know me. who not really knowing me on my big day. for me it's just enough my close relative and my close friends is there with me on my big day..then my sis said.. 400 guest list is not enough for my mom. if i still insist with 400 people then i should manage my wedding by myself..then i said ok..not a problem.

the point is, it's not easy to satisfied others..phew...

last week is my cousin's wedding. and today i heard people talked to my mom " awak dapat anak buah baru tak jemput kita pun" motip?? if people don't invite u so? why you should brag about it? we mush respect others guest list. we didn't know how much is their budget. if they are not inviting you so bear with it.. lainla kalau kau close enough dengan derang. ko tu pakcik pengantin tapi pengantin tak jemput ko. tu baru boleh emo ok..ataupun member baik ko sendiri kongsi bantal sesama dari kecik tetiba kawen tak jemput.itu memang patut emo.

so conclusion, memang susah nk senang kan hati semua orang..

ish tapi aku nak jugak tetamu aku 500 je..takkan 1000 sape nak bagi duit???

akak aku kata guna duit hantaran..tapi kalau suami aku taknak bagi duit hantaran camne? (sbb dia kata nk bagi cincin jew..ahaks!)

update - aku dah tanya mak aku. 500 tetamu cukup tak utk kenduri aku kawen.mak aku kata tak cukup.. orang satu taman ni je dah 500..melampau kan? bapak aku YB kajang kew??